Nashville Therapy Guide: How to Deepen Connection in Your Relationships

Relationships are Complex

I meet with clients every day who struggle with some aspect of their relationships. Sometimes it's a spouse or romantic partner, but it can also be a parent, relative, friend or coworker. A simple list will never solve all your problems in relationships. Humans are far more complex than any list could fully address. However, I have learned several actions to take that help you start cultivating healthier relationships...whether you’re starting from scratch or working to improve existing ones, here are a few steps where you can begin.

Moving Toward Deepening of Connection

So how can you start cultivating healthier relationships? Whether you’re starting from scratch or working to improve existing ones, here are a few steps to guide you:

1. Improve Communication: Clear, honest communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Make it a point to express your thoughts and feelings openly, and encourage the other person to do the same.

2. Set Boundaries: Boundaries help protect your emotional health and define what’s acceptable within the relationship. Be clear about your limits and respect the other person's limits as well.

3. Practice Active Listening: Listening is more than hearing words; it’s about understanding and validating the emotions behind them even if you disagree. Put the phones away, turn of the TV, and take time to fully engage in conversations without distractions.

4. Seek Balance: Make space for both of you to have an equal say in decisions and that no one person carries the emotional weight of the relationship. Balance is key to preventing resentment from building up. If there is resentment over imbalance, address it sooner rather than later!

5. Focus on Self-care: Healthy relationships start with a healthy you! By taking care of your mental, emotional, and physical well-being, you’ll be better equipped to contribute to a positive relationship.

6. Address Unhealthy Patterns: If your relationship is stuck in negative cycles—such as poor communication or lack of trust—acknowledge these patterns and work together to break them. Therapy can be uniquely helpful resource in this process.

Therapy Helps Create Healthier Relationships

It is normal for even the most loving, caring relationships to still require outside help at times. In a safe therapy space, you can work explore patterns, heal past wounds, and develop healthier ways of relating to yourself and the people in your life. If you find that your relationships are a increasingly of stress rather than support, seeking some help from a counselor can be the first step toward building the connection you're longing to experience.

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Tim Jackson, LMFT, MS, MMFT is a therapist in East Nashville, TN and online providing individual & couples counseling for adults to foster deeper connections to themselves, their loved ones & the world around them. Book an in-person appointment at Tim's East Nashville counseling office or Telehealth today at TimJacksonCounseling.com.

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